Okay so the wedding is on! But the date has to be changed! When? Haven't a clue!!! Rodrigo's visa is up the 1st of December, but our tickets are for the 22nd of September! SOoooo, should we stay longer?? I still haven't found a job. I mean a real full time job. I have been babysitting my niece for money and I get in a few weekends of waitressing at a cafe I used to work at back in the day. It brings in enough to survive, but not enough to change the tickets!! Grrr!! Rodrigo refuses to have the wedding in September although the 11th and 12th are open. He will not have it in September UNLESS we have it on the 18th!! Stupid boy!! We can't have it on the 18th because my cousin has his wedding on the 19th!! No way in hell will 2 weddings in a row fly for my family!! Plus I don't want to do that!! So we are still stuck, we have a reservation at the American Legion for the reception we just don't have it on a date yet, I don't have a photographer and have a big feeling I won't be able to find one anyways so I'll just have to have someone attempt to take nice pictures, and I don't have a DJ or band set up for the reception. SOoooo, at the moment I am waiting for Ro to get out of the shower so we can go to the emplyment office to try and get something because I guess we will HAVE to change our tickets so we can have our wedding in October since some stupid Chilean thinks the 18th of September is the only suitable day in September to get married! Ughhhhh!!!!
Anyways, back to life before Ro catches me on the computer!!! Apparently it is ok for him to be on the computer 12 hours a day, but I can't be on it at all because I am home and what would I need a computer for?? Well, let me tell you how much that will suck for him if we go back to Chile!!!!! I can lay the same cards and play the same games as him!!!!
2 comments:
Okay... don't shoot me, but calm down! You sound really stressed and weddings are supposed to be happy. I think sometimes people forget that. So, try to relax, compromise a bit, and enjoy your day. That's what it's all about.
i agree with sara....life's too short to stress so much...i just got married in chile a little over a year and a half ago...things are never perfect, in fact, oftentimes they may appear to be more imperfect...i will tell you this: once it's all said in done you'll A) be really happy it's over B) you'll be married to Ro! C) you won't really have given a rat's as# if it was on one day v/s another...you'll just be happy it's happened and that it's over! good luck!
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